John goes on, deeper:
"Many authors have provided excellent mind-food to the world, and we can feel well-blessed to be able to
include
quotes from them, descriptive notes, and a place in our bibliography.
"Such education leaders as Prof Guy Hendricks & Jim Fadiman (school of transpersonal-psychology in California) were aspiring to
bolster
friendly-competition, nurturance and integration when they published their work on individual and
group Centering microskills and on the five categories of Human management, needs Identification and problem solving.
"Jim Fadiman pictured five distinct intentions of people-management, the worst first:
"1. Exploitative: which is enslaving, suppressing, even the killing-off of people not 'fitting in';
2. Manipulative: whilst less severe than exploitation manipulation of others is seriously depriving them ofsome important lifesupport,
and is
doing-down workers and/or the general
-public;
3. Competitive: the most wide-ranging of these five others-management categories, but sub-divisible into three
(a) life-threatening competition/conflict: such as in the Armed Forces; or in 'peace-time' causing poor people to live in unsafe or
hazardous places;
(b) lifesupports-destroying competition/conflict: such as when a Government stops a welfare-income, or a Utility company 'blacks'
a good customer's credit-rating simply over a
mistake in the legislation or in the billing/payment system;
(c) co-constructive or friendly competition: as in games of basketball, tennis, and tiddleywinks [ NB please consider that certain
friendly games may in fact be utter time-wasters
or procrastinations/real-need-avoidances, and should then be seen as being more destructive to one or all of its participants
than
constructive];
4. Nurturing: one or two players respectively are nurtured by a game of Freecell or Chess; a study group backed by
programmed-learning
material and activities is being nurtured;
and an actively participant membership of a charity such as Oxfam or Amnesty or Greenpeace is co-nurturing.
[ "The quality of Mercy is not Strained ... it blesses he who gives and he who takes,," (Shakespeare, The Merchant of Venice) ];
being the kitchen-gardener, or simply being in a mutual-companionship relationship, is nurturing.;
5. Integrative;. actively protecting the Peace and the necessary common Lifesupports; supporting fair legislation and non-loopholey
implementation-regulation; or simply helping an
impaired person to cross a busy street safely."
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